On the occasion of the ordination to the priesthood of my friend and colleague at Christ Church Plano, Susan Freeman, I wanted to offer a few thoughts on women’s ordination at this time in Anglicanism in America.
(I say, a ‘few’ words because to really tackle this issue rightly I would need spend a lot more time on: (1) what Christian corporate discernment looks like, i.e. it looks nothing like an issue so hot that only hotheads seem to handle it in a kind of blogosphere battle royale as currently seems to be the case far too often; (2) what actually is ordination, i.e. what office(s)/role(s) of the Old Testament are being fulfilled in the New and in the church today–which I find curiously absent from most discussions on women’s ordination.)
I had a wonderful chat not long ago with a dear friend and colleague who is a priest in the Anglican Communion of North America (ACNA) but who sees the question of women’s ordination slightly differently than me. It was a wonderful conversation in many ways because even though we disagreed on a few points, we were able to identify some real areas of agreement, and I felt like it was a fruitful conversation worth reflecting on. In it, I felt a way forward from the violent words often spoken on this issue (from both sides).
First, my friend and I agreed that for us as low-church, evangelical Anglicans the question of women’s ordination was not related to questions about the elements. There is a real division here even within ACNA about what is happening in communion with the elements and therefore what role the priest plays in presiding over the altar/table.
My sense is that, for ACNA, there should be grace in this area. One of Anglicanism’s strengths is our diversity within the bounds of orthodoxy. For me, orthodoxy does not demand such a low-church view of the Lord’s Supper that every Anglican who partakes of it should have no concern for the gender of the priest. I can understand why some with more high church leanings feel the necessity of a man as priest in some of their liturgical rites (for various reasons). I don’t hold that view and niether does my friend, but I can understand and respect it. (I saw this kind of respect demonstrated beautifully for me at Trinity School for Ministry where students and professors disagreed but where you would see quiet absentions from women-led Eucharists or careful, loving theological conversations as opposed to showy protests or biting tongues.)
For me, that means that when we gather as a broader community, we, out of love and deference for one another, have only men celebrate the Eucharist. But back home, in our own parishes, we should be allowed to celebrate with female priests, if allowed by our bishops. (On whether women should be allowed to be bishops, I have not decided what I think.)
2. My friend and I agreed that a woman’s ordination to the priesthood does not depend on Scriptures about teaching. Many non-liturgical Protestants draw the line here since there is such a singular emphasis on the preaching of the word as the only sacrament delivered by the pastor (although they’d probably cringe at the word ‘sacrament’–I know I did!).
For me, the passages which seem to preclude women from teaching (e.g. 1 Cor 13.33-35; 2 Tim 2.12) are off-set by so many other passages where women are teaching or are prophecying (1 Cor 11.5ff; Acts 18.26; Rom 16.7) which in all likelihood held more authority than mere teaching (see Craig Keener for more on this) that I cannot see a strict prohibition against women teaching. (There are many more points to be made as each passage is exegeted, but I will leave well enough alone for now.)
Likewise, we agreed that many women seem to be gifted in teaching (e.g. Anne Graham Lotz’s preaching has caused not a few to re-think their theology about men being the only ones allowed to preach!) and that consistency in this theology might require women to be precluded from teaching boys during that most formative teaching period of a person’s theological life–childhood! (Almost noone can bear to be consistent about this, because, for one, they would have to withdraw women from teaching their boys about God in the home.) Would it also keep women from evangelizing their own husbands? To avoid these difficulties, one has to show that ‘men’ in Scripture does not include ‘boys’ or ‘unconverted men’ or that ‘teaching’ is different from ‘evangelizing’. Such arguments can be made defensibly, but to me, not persuasively. I have learned (and continue to learn!) too much about the Lord from the women in my life to call it all disobedience to God.
3. Then, where my friend and I differed is on the question of ‘headship’ (and probably ‘eldership’ although this word never made it into our conversation, per se).
I am inclined to see male headship as a dynamic within marriages that I can’t fully express (I don’t see it as an ethic, but a way we look like Christ, which calls women to not overpower men and men to give themselves for women); whereas my friend sees male headship as ’the protection and provision of men over their wives and families (cf. Eph 5.29).’ This view he extends to churches because ‘churches work like families and in some way model the way families should function, especially in this world where gender-relationships are so confused.’ Therefore, for him, women should not be excluded from ordination to the priesthood but should not be heads of congregations, female priests should only function under a head male priests. (By the way, in this position, my friend joins our illustrious elder-statesman of Anglicanism, John Stott, in his Commentary on 1 Timothy.)
I agree with him (a) that our world is full of confused (and stife-ridden!) gender relationships (more on this later), (b) that one of the basic biblical models for a church is a family (which necessarily means that while pictures of families affect churches, the opposite is also true), and (c) that there is a such thing as biblical masculinity and that ‘provide and protect’ are very good contenders for such a definition (I also like ‘gentle and strong’). Where I struggle is with ‘headship’.
This has always been a tough one for me. Scripture is clear: ‘the head of a wife is her husband’ (1 Cor 11.3); ‘For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior.’ (Eph 5.23).
Where I have struggled is: ‘What does this headship mean?’ and ‘What, if anything, does it have to do with the church (as opposed to just the family unit)?’ I have wondered, ‘Are you saying every man is the head of every woman? But the Bible doesn’t say that, and I can’t imagine any other guy telling my wife what to do, when I’m not around as a demonstration of his headship!‘
I have been taught (by egalitarian professors) that it never meant ‘leader’, it meant ‘source’ as in ‘headwaters’. While I agree that there are multiple indications where the idea of source is in view for Paul (e.g. 1 Cor 11.8; 1 Tim 2.13), it seems absent in the Ephesians reference, and even more difficult for me is the use of kephale (Greek for ‘head’) in the translation of the Old Testament into Greek. Along with the idea of ‘first, beginning’ (e.g. Ezek 40.1; Num 10.10), rosh (Hebrew for ‘head’ which translated as kephale in Greek) has definite titular and authoritative connotations (e.g. Num 1.4; Deut. 33.5). The latter seems more applicable to families while the former is related to calendars and objects.
It is hard for me to imagine a Greek and Hebrew-speaking rabbi like Paul using the word kephale to describe source when he would have been so enmeshed in kephale as the patriarchal ‘head’ of a family. If he had wanted to only describe ‘source’ he could have used something like aitios (Heb 5.9). I can only conclude that something of traditional familial headship is in mind for Paul even if he grounds it in an ethical framework that equalizes gender relationships by reminding them of their interdependency (cf. 1 Cor 11.11-12, see below) or even if he sees the Gospel radically re-orienting what those traditional relationships might look like. (I see Eph 5.21-33 in this light. There is of course a lot more that could be said and should be said about the patriarchy of the Old Testament–how much of it is perceived, real, and/or intended by God.) So, perhaps men, by their nature are the unifying, ‘public’ face of their families. (Does this work in the analogy to Christ and the church? I think, yes.)
This idea of interdependency is something my friend, and I landed on pretty strongly. We both agreed that this world desperately needs a witness to gender strife where men and women live lovingly and in mutual submission out of response to their need for one another and their *created* interdependence. Consider this quote:
1 Corinthians 11:11-12 Nevertheless, in the Lord woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.
There are several things I disagree with complementarian theologians on, but I have to say that when all is said and done, many of the practitioners of this model are trying to empower women (and not keep them underfoot as they are accused of by secularists). They are trying to give a solid definition to what it means to be female in the eyes of God and to call women into that life. I affirm that.
I disagree with them when they say that that means the man should ‘make the decisions’ or be the ‘spiritual leader of his house’. (Mini-soapbox: My wife, by nature of her deep involvement in raising our kids as a homemake–by the way, that’s her choice, not mine for her–spiritual educates and leads our children all the time! And not just by reading them Bible stories, but by helping them with conflict and showing them loving discipline. These are theological events!) But, egalitarians must try to say something stronger about what it means to be ‘female’ than merely ‘anything a man can do’. God did not make us exactly similar–for a reason. It was to humble us all and make us need each other (e.g. as expressed so in reproduction–this is often difficult to see in given our current fascination with the power of biotechnology).
As with ‘masculinity’, I don’t want to define ‘femininity’ too myopically, i.e. is if only our day or our culture determines the options for femininity, but I do think there is something to be said about a universality of woman-ness, inasmuch as we are ‘created male and female’. (I like ‘celebrated and nuturing’ as descriptor, so far; remembering these are not exclusive categories which exclude men from sharing some of these characteristics or vice versa.)
All that is to say, interdependency is a biblical landing place where many sides can come together and say ‘yes’. We may define the specifics differently, but when we get there, the ethics will be cruciform, self-sacrificing, and yet self-affirming, and that’s what we’re shooting for.
So when my friend preserves a place for men as ‘head’ priests, he does so because he wants to see a life-affirming order and blessing given to women. For him, women need men to be heads, men need women to be the something like ‘necks’ (supportive and, although not seen, integral).
Likewise, when I support women as priests it is in part because I see women and men celebrating at the table together as a sign of our mutuality and our bi-gendered reflection of the image of God (cf. Gen. 1.27).
I think he, and I are very close on this issue. Whether women are ‘head’ priests or not, is a minimal shift from allowing them to serve and lead in Christ’s church. I lean toward women serving as priests because our radical interdependency is expressed in Gen 1.17-28 and because it best reflects the equality of genders expressed in the New Testament (Gal 3.26-29). Although passages like 1 Cor 11.10 indicate that women should dress differently when they minister in church, the way that dress would be reflected today is less than clear, and more to the point, women are specifically affirmed as those who prophecy, publicly, in church (1 Cor 11.5). (I have been recently interested in the way ‘prophets’ operate relative to the office of elders in Num 11.24-25, 29 and relative to the Eucharist in the Didache. More on this later, I hope.) The male-headship model over fellow priests is a position I don’t agree with, but I can see it and I can respect it. What will help us is, I think, to agree on the key questions and passages and work together from there.
Here are some of my further questions and positions (which may or may not differ from my friend):
While men are typically heads of families in the Bible (and this has deep anthropological reasons which would be hard to detail now, but suffice it to say that male lineage makes it possible to keep fathers in the picture where otherwise they would become merely ‘seed-donors’–since the progenation of mother to child could almost never be questioned in ancient times), women as heads of households are not absent. Lydia (Acts 16.14-15) seems like a very possible and prominant example, and there are probably others. It seems hard for me to draw a hard line about male headship in a church, when if we really wanted to be sticklers about modeling a positive family model we might have to consider what is now very popular in Pentecostal churches, the husband-and-wife team lead the church.
I think the real question is about elders. ‘Priest’ is not a Greek word and probably comes to us in English from the Old English, ‘preost’, which stemmed from the Old Frisian, ‘prestere’, which stemmed from the Vulgar Latin, ‘prester’, which came from the Latin Language, ‘presbyter’, which is just a transliteration of the Greek, presbyter, meaning ‘elder’. So, even though we never use it this way now, ‘priest’ has its etymological origins in the concept of ‘elder.’ Is there a way in which the priest of the church today stands in line with the ‘priests’ of the Old Testament? Maybe, but the connection is unlikely. The connection to the elders of Israel is much closer.
Here is where I am tempted to say a lot about the nature of ordination right when I should be wrapping up. So, let me just ask what change does the New Covenant bring to elders. Is it possible that women could be elders in the church? Women were not elders in previous generations, I think, at least in part, because they did not have the proper education to lead and teach (although I’d love to see some studies on this). Is there something about women as a gender that keeps them from being elders when they are clearly allowed to be prophets?
I ask this because I am working in Numbers 11, where the elders are first called together and there the sign of their eldership is prophecying (Num 11.24-30). If prophecying has not been kept from the women of our churches (cf. Acts 21.9), can eldership? We know that eldership is not simply about age, but about a gift from God; otherwise only the oldest ones among us would be elder. Is there a verse in the Bible that says women can’t be elders? 1 Tim 3.2 says overseers should be ‘the husband of but one wife’, but is this meant as an exclusion of women or based on the reality of the context that at that time only men or mostly men were overseers/elders. It still remains that there is no direct prohibition against women as elders even as there is no direct evidence that we ever had one.
Sidebar: Probably the single most important reason not to have women ordained is out of deference to tradition. So far as we can tell (and I welcome anyone out there who is a better church historian than me to show me wrong), no woman was ever ordained priest in the churches of God until 25 January 1944 when Florence Li Tim-Oi was ordained by Bp. Hall in order to properly care for the Anglican population in China during the war. But this does not mean that God didn’t allow it. Certainly we are not talking about eternal truths about God, but about the good ordering of his church. Still, we need to be careful with one another and with God’s broader church. This is my concern about women as bishops, not their qualifications but how we exhibit our unified life as a worldwide community of Christians.
To my mind, in Scripture, there is no clear prohibition against women’s ordination and no clear permission for it, and since the Lord knows we need men and women serving his church, i.e. we need more workers not fewer, and since we are sure of that in Christ there is no division between male and female, no superiority of one over the other. (I am well aware that no good complementarian ever claims men are better than women just living in different roles, but are they overly-dividing the church and inordinately keeping power in the hands of men against the radical equality of the foot of the cross?) Since there has been this radical in-breaking of Christ’s life on earth where women exhibit the ministry of Jesus in all sorts of ways, I can see no compelling reason against women as priests, even head priests, and many reasons for it. (i.e. I have a hard time understanding evangelism and missions powerfully going forward by God through women and then pulling women back and saying, ‘No, you have brought Christ to these people, but you may not now lead this congregation because now it is a family.’ Was it not a family before then? When did it make the transition?)
Advocating for women as priests disturbs many in other denominations and many provinces in our own communion. I, for one, welcome our current state of ‘reception’ for women in the priesthood and want to continue to discern together what God’s will is. I hope to participate in many careful and considerate conversations on this for years to come. And in the meantime, I look forward to being a deacon to my friend, Susan, and together modeling a new picture of male and female–creatures of God’s making and in his image, both of us–all gathered at His table, where He is the center of our worship and attention.
I hope the reflections here will help us as we continue our conversation together.